Five Still With Me remembrance journals in soft sage, ivory, dusty blue, taupe and blush on warm linen beside a lit candle and baby's breath

A guided remembrance journal

A place for the
memories that
stay with you

Thoughtful journals to help you remember, honor, and carry forward the story of someone deeply loved.

Choose an edition

Who are you remembering?

Sixteen grief journal editions, one for every bond — a mother, father, partner, child, grandparent, sibling or friend. Each is shaped around the person you lost, so their story stays close.

See all 16 editions

Inside the book

Pages that hold what you remember

Gentle prompts, and keepsake pages made to be filled — a recipe in their handwriting’s place, a photograph, a ticket stub from a day you keep coming back to. Eighty guided prompts across nine chapters help you write down the memories, the family stories and the small everyday details that made them who they were — so the grief journal slowly becomes a keepsake memory book your family will return to.

  • A recipe worth keeping
  • A photograph, pasted in
  • 80 gentle prompts

Real pages from the Loved One edition.

Pages 38–39, exactly as printed — the keepsake recipe spread.

A woman writing in the Still With Me journal at a wooden table, a lit memorial candle beside her

Why writing helps

One page at a time,
they stay.

Writing through loss is one of the most researched ways to carry grief — quiet, private, and yours.

In studies of expressive writing, fifteen quiet minutes a day brought steadier sleep, fewer racing thoughts, and a softer mood.

What research says

Why writing helps

One page at a time,
they stay.

Writing through loss is one of the most researched ways to carry grief — quiet, private, and yours.

In studies of expressive writing, fifteen quiet minutes a day brought steadier sleep, fewer racing thoughts, and a softer mood.

What research says

A quiet ritual

Light a candle. Open the journal.

Ten minutes of remembering, whenever you need it. Many people keep the journal and candle together, in one place.

  1. 1Light the candle.
  2. 2Open the journal.
  3. 3Take a quiet moment to remember.
Explore the sets Also a thoughtful sympathy gift.
The Still With Me journal beside The Light Remains soy candle and baby's breath on warm linen
The Light Remains — hand-poured soy candle, 9 oz

Journal & candle sets

The ritual, complete

Everything the evening asks for, chosen together — a journal in the edition you need, and the candle you light while you write.

Build your gift set

Every set ships in two packages — journals from our print partner, candles from our candle studio. Each journal available in all editions.

From the Journal

Quiet notes on grief, memory, and keeping someone close — what to write in a grief journal, how small evening rituals help, and which sympathy gifts still matter in the weeks after a loss.

Featured essay

What to Write When There Are No Words

On beginning · 6 min

The blank page can feel enormous after a loss. Three gentle ways to begin — none of them require knowing what to say.

Arriving quietly, soon
  • On ritual · 4 min

    A Small Evening Ritual for Remembering

    Ten quiet minutes with a candle and a journal — how a small repeated moment becomes a place y...

    Arriving quietly, soon
  • On giving · 5 min

    A Sympathy Gift for the Weeks After

    Flowers fade, and the cards stop coming sooner than anyone expects. What actually helps a gri...

    Arriving quietly, soon
  • On keeping · 4 min

    Keeping Their Recipes: A Small Family Archive

    The handwriting on a stained index card is its own kind of portrait. How one page becomes a s...

    Arriving quietly, soon
The first essays are being prepared — they’ll arrive quietly.

What’s inside

Nine chapters, one small step at a time

The journal moves gently, from who they were to how you carry them forward. No right way to do it, and no pressure to fill every page.

  • 80gentle guided prompts
  • 120lined pages to write
  • 6 × 9 inkeepsake size
  1. I Beginning GentlyHowever you arrive here is the right way to start.
  2. II The Life We SharedThe ordinary hours that turned out to matter most.
  3. III The Little ThingsThe small details that were unmistakably them.
  4. IV Their StoryThe life they lived, in their own shape.
  5. V The Two of YouWhat grew in the space between you.
  6. VI What RemainsWhat stays, and goes on living in you.
  7. VII The Tender DaysRoom for the harder hours, exactly as they are.
  8. VIII Keeping Their WorldGathering what should never be lost.
  9. IX Letters & Continuing BondWords for them, whenever you need them.

Formats & making

Printed to order, close to you

No warehouse shelves. Each copy is printed when you order it, checked, and sent with tracking — made for you, not before you.

  • Paperback $29.99 · soft matte cover
  • Hardcover $39.99 · keepsake edition
  • Printed to order 3–5 business days
  • Delivery 9–14 business days, tracked