Trauergeschenke & Sets

The memorial candle gift set

The set people ask for most is simply a guided grief journal together with The Light Remains memorial soy candle: something that helps them process the loss, eighty gentle prompts rather than a blank notebook, and something to light while writing. There is no fixed box to buy: you choose the edition that matches the loss, add the candle, and the discount applies on its own at checkout.

Buying for a family

Two journals in one order take 15% off automatically, and three or more take 20% off, for the brothers and sisters, or for everyone at a funeral who would like their own. You can mix any editions. There are no codes to enter: the store applies whichever discount leaves you better off, so you never have to work it out yourself.

What is in the set

• A guided journal with eighty gentle prompts across nine chapters that help the reader process the loss at their own pace: 120 pages, 6 × 9 in (15 × 23 cm), hardcover or paperback
• An edition written for one specific loss: a parent, a partner, a sibling, a grandparent, a child, a friend, or a pet
• A memorial candle: The Light Remains, hand-poured soy in seven gentle scents, made to be lit at a quiet moment rather than to scent a room

The candle ships within the United States only. Journals ship worldwide, printed to order close to the recipient.

Choosing a sympathy gift when you don't know what to say

A journal asks nothing of the person receiving it. There is no reply to write and no timeline to keep to. They can open it in the first week or leave it on a shelf for a year. If you would like to include a note of your own, the first page is left blank for exactly that.

If you are not sure which edition fits, read who each edition is for, or begin with 25 free grief journal prompts to see the tone of the writing before you buy.

Sympathy gift ideas by relationship

People rarely search for a "grief journal". They ask what to give someone who lost their mom, what a good bereavement gift is, or what memorial keepsake will still mean something in a year. What we make is a guided book of eighty questions to write to the person who died, one edition per relationship, bound to be kept. Below is where each one fits.

• A sympathy gift for someone who lost their mom or their dad, with the parent editions side by side
• A gift for a widow who lost her husband or a widower who lost his wife, and the partner editions together
• A memorial keepsake for parents who lost a child, including the son and daughter editions
• A bereavement gift for someone who lost a brother or sister
• A remembrance gift for someone who lost a grandma or grandpa
• A gift for a friend whose best friend died
• A pet loss gift for someone who lost a dog, cat or horse

Questions people ask before sending a sympathy gift

What is a good sympathy gift for someone who lost their mom?

Something that still makes sense after the first two weeks, when the flowers and cards have stopped. A guided journal written for the loss of a mother is one option: eighty questions about her, bound as a keepsake, that the person can open when they are ready. Other gifts that hold up over time are a framed photograph, a meal delivered a month later, and a note that mentions her by name.

What do you give someone who is grieving instead of flowers?

Flowers are gone within the week and arrive when the house is already full of them. Gifts that last are a memorial keepsake with the person's name on it, a guided grief journal, a candle to light on the anniversary, or a donation in their name. The best of these arrive late, when everyone else has gone quiet.

Is a journal an appropriate bereavement gift?

Yes, as long as it asks nothing. A guided journal does not need a reply and does not set a timeline, so it can sit unopened for a year without being a failure. The hardcover is the usual choice for a gift, and the first page is left blank for a note of your own.